Nagpur: Red roses, heart-shaped balloons and crowded cafés painted parts of Nagpur City in shades of romance on Valentine’s Day, but beneath the cheerful celebrations, there was also a quiet undercurrent of caution.
From Futala Lake and Ambazari Garden to cafés in Dharampeth and Sitabuldi, young couples stepped out to mark February 14 with selfies, long walks and candlelight dinners. Florists reported brisk sales since early morning, gift shops ran out of premium chocolate boxes by afternoon, and restaurants said advance bookings were higher than usual.
Yet, amid the festive vibe, conversations with several youngsters revealed something else: a subtle sense of unease.
Celebration with caution
Across the country, Valentine’s Day has often witnessed protests or moral policing by self-styled “culture protectors,” targeting couples in parks and public spaces. While Nagpur has largely avoided major flare-ups in recent years, the broader national pattern appears to have created a psychological ripple effect.
“We wanted to go to a park, but we chose a café instead,” said a college student celebrating with her partner. “You never know when someone might object or start recording videos. Even if nothing happens, the fear is there.”
Another group of friends at a popular eatery in Ramdaspeth admitted they had informed their parents about their outing in advance, partly to avoid unnecessary complications.
Public spaces under scrutiny
Police presence was visible at key locations, including lakeside promenades and prominent gardens. Officials maintained that bandobast was routine and meant to ensure peace.
“We have not received any specific threat inputs,” a senior officer said. “Our teams are deployed to prevent any untoward incident and ensure everyone can celebrate without disturbance.”
However, some young citizens said the very need for visible policing highlights a deeper issue, whether public spaces are equally accessible and safe for expressions of affection among consenting adults.
“It’s not about doing anything wrong,” said a software professional in his twenties. “Just sitting together shouldn’t feel like a risk.”
Business booms despite worries
Despite the anxieties, commercial establishments saw a surge in footfall. Florists in Sitabuldi and Sadar reported that red roses sold out before noon. Online delivery services handled a spike in orders for cakes and curated gift hampers.
Restaurant owners said Valentine-themed décor, live music and special menus attracted both couples and groups of friends celebrating “friendship day-style” outings.
“We were fully booked,” said a café manager in Dharampeth. “There was no disturbance anywhere. The day went smoothly.”
A changing city, a delicate balance
Nagpur, known for its relatively calm social climate, appears to be walking a delicate line, balancing tradition and modernity, caution and celebration. While there were no reports of harassment or disruption on Friday, the perception of possible moral policing seems to linger in the minds of many youngsters.
For now, Valentine’s Day in the city ended with more smiles than stress. But the quiet conversations among the youth reflect a larger question, can love in public truly feel free, or does it still look over its shoulder?









